5 MAGIC WORDS, USE THEM!

5 MAGIC WORDS, USE THEM!

I was at the hospital sometime this week. While I waited to see the doctor, along came a lady with a cast. She stood for some minutes, scanning for an empty seat.

I quickly gave up my seat for her, realizing I was down, but stronger than she was.

I was shocked as I looked on. She arrogantly took the seat, brought out her phone and was on with whatever it was she was doing.

Don’t get me wrong, but a thank you wouldn’t have hurt at all.

I’ve observed that some people find it so very hard to use the magic words, sorry, please, excuse me, pardon me and thank you. 

I try as much as I can to use these words, and also instill it in my kids. It’s very easy for them to sometimes forget, but it’s our duty to insist until it consists.

I wouldn’t want them growing up without their manners.

It’s greatly embarrassing for children especially from an age of enlightenment not to demonstrate such courtesies. 

But all these start from our homes. Our carelessness to instill these simple but extremely important attitude is sometimes the reason why we have the instance mentioned above.

It’s not enough to feed and provide for them. These little things matter to.

Please share your thoughts.

HAPPY CHILDREN’S DAY!

HAPPY CHILDREN’S DAY!

Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord.

The fruit of the womb is a reward.

Like arrows in the hand of a warrior,

So are the children of one’s youth.

Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them;

They shall not be ashamed,

But shall speak with their enemies in the gate. (Psm 127:3-5)

I am grateful to God for these priceless gifts he considered my husband and I worthy to have. We are indeed blessed!

Beyond these beautiful faces, our desire is to raise godly seeds….a generation totally sold out to God.

We are willing to pay every price to see these ones turn out right, knowing that at this tender age, they’re learning moral and spiritual values from us. 

The choices we make….the words we speak, the attitudes we display, our characters, every single step we take is consciously or unconsciously molding these innocent minds into our likeness.

As parents, we can only reap the harvest of our own sowing. Any hope for tomorrow, actually depends on what happens in our homes now.

It is not a struggle however when you are deeply rooted in God. The first step in parenting is to find God, a great source of strength.

He gives grace, He gives counsel, He gives direction, He gives guidance. He teaches, and comforts, He gives wisdom on how to do it.

God has given us the great responsibility of raising these children right. 

As we celebrate our children today, I pray God’s grace upon every mother out there.

Our children shall not bring us shame, they will definitely make us proud!

Amen!!!

GOD BLESS THE AUTHOR

GOD BLESS THE AUTHOR

I don’t know who to credit this article with, but I completely agree with the writer.

If a child lives with criticism,

     He learns to condemn. 

If a child lives with hostility,

     He learns to fight.

If a child lives with ridicule,

     He learns to be shy.

If a child lives with shame,

     He learns to feel guilty.

If a child lives with tolerance,

     He learns to be patient.

If a child lives with encouragement,

     He learns confidence.

If a child lives with praise,

     He learns to appreciate.

If a child lives with fairness,

     He learns justice.

If a child lives with security,

     He learns to have faith.

If a child lives with approval,

     He learns to like himself.

If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,

     He learns to find love in the world.

Author unknown 

TEACH THEM TO PRAY!

TEACH THEM TO PRAY!

I remember as a young girl, even as one that wasn’t yet in Christ, my mum made us (my sisters and I) learn and recite these words below after every devotion. It was somewhat tiresome, but it has not left me.

Quite recently, I thought to teach my kids too. I was able to make it more than half way through but couldn’t remember the rest. I called my mum and she recited it all for me. Wow! After more than 20 years.

Mothers, what are we teaching and leaving our kids with each day? 

How much of God do we share with them? How much of God do we model for them?

They’re never too young to learn the word of God or His ways.

Let’s remember to train up our kids in the way they should go and even when they’re old, they will not depart from it.

God help us through this motherhood journey in these times. We can only do it by His wisdom and Grace.

I am a child of God

Born by the spirit of God

I have God‘s divine nature 

I am who God says I am

I am righteous, sanctified and redeemed 

I can do all things through Christ my Lord

I have victory over every principality and power

I fear no evil for God is with me

I am blessed, chosen and accepted 

I live by the word of God, and grow in grace and in the Holy Spirit

I have wisdom, power and ability 

I am a new creature designed for victory

Amen!!!!

CAN I BE GIVEN A CHANCE?

CAN I BE GIVEN A CHANCE?

I don’t get it, why won’t my husband allow me give him a haircut? What could he be so afraid of, or uncomfortable with? Does he not trust I will do a good job?

I have  always believed I’m the only one his looks are important to, or so I thought.

Why won’t he allow me prove myself like all the other women I have seen do it? It’s not a competition, I know, but this is just the only time I have to try this out. 

I can’t bear seeing him everyday looking like a cave man, I just have to clean him up. Is this not reason enough?

Do I do it in his sleep? Oh… how will I maneuver his head, without waking him up?

Do I give him a sleeping pill? Am I ready to face the full consequences?

How, how do I just get this done so I can also proudly put up the pics?

What could be the worse? That he gets a Skin – cut? Is there any worse than that?Well, that might be an opportunity to wear a new look. How bad can that be?

I will not be deterred, I will keep scheming, and manipulating. May be….just may be, his defence will crumble. 

In the mean time, let me continue to sip on my pina colada( Non alchoholic) as I think harder.

I‘m a born barber, and I will prove it!!!

Cheers!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE!

Today could pass for yet another day, but for the king who was born to make it extraordinary.

Can’t but thank God for blessing this earth with a kind so rare.

A true breed of our Father in heaven, a man that I’m madly in love with.

Wisdom demonstrated in all humility 

Knowledge exhibited, ignorance quivers

Skilled exceptionally

A bag of greatness 

Full of Godliness, and Grace….a man this cute?

I’m such a lucky woman. No, I am a blessed woman, stuck with this imperfect man that drives me crazy sometimes, yet his love completely melts my heart.

While I write to express the thoughts of my heart, I also pray that God takes you to heights that only exist in your imagination, and depths beyond comprehension. 

May your greatness not only be encountered by your immediate environment, but by the world at large.

You are an asset the world will never get over. Your manifestation is quickened, the stage is set, go and take over!!!

Happy birthday my darling Orezi Emeotu.

You are a man helped by God!!!

I love you.

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